Monday, April 7, 2014

Construction - aka the "sure, why not" post

When Sloan came home in September of 2012, Kerri and I knew something was going to have to give when it came to our apartment. We were incredibly lucky to have the size, location and amenities (read: elevator and private roof area) on 13th Street since summer of 2010 but would a child send us to another area of town or (GASP!) Brooklyn??? 

After sleeping in her bassinet in our bedroom for the first 2 sleepless months, Sloan moved to the area between our bedroom and bathroom. This was pretty convenient as her limited footprint only consisted of a small crib and a changing table (previously seen in our kitchen as an IKEA microwave stand/storage unit.) We set up a small heater for Sloan to keep warm by since this area also had our spiral staircase to the roof. Yes, she was a Harry Potter child. 

Late spring/early summer of 2013, it became apparent that Sloan's space under the stairs wasn't going to fly much longer. "Kid gear" had been increasing by the day. Our lease renewal paperwork had also just come in which, of course, was an increase over our current rate for the next two years. Kerri and I considered moving for about 90 seconds before I started to get brave and sketch out in my mind how we could shift our current one bedroom into a junior two bedroom. [Side note: "junior two" is NYC code for a two-bedroom where the second bedroom doesn't have a window.] 

Lump in my throat and telephone in my hand, I called our building owner with a proposition: let me do construction on our apartment, at our expense, in exchange for the same rent we had been paying for the last year (which, keep in mind, was negotiated the previous renewal cycle and we were given a break 'because we were nice kids who just got married'). Our landlord, who shall remain graciously nameless, asked to see my plans for the construction. I sent them to his secretary along with a picture of Sloan. It was a sneaky move but I needed all the help I could get with this negotiation or we may be taking the subway into the city from Bushwick every day.

A few days passed and Mr. Landlord called my cell. The first words out of his mouth weren't, "hello" or, "is Barry there?" but instead, "be sure the little girl has good ventilation." I felt pretty lucky that this 80+-year-old man who owns more buildings in Manhattan than he can probably remember and likely pays more each year in real estate taxes than I will make in my lifetime not only took the time to call me but gave us his approval. 

Mr. Landlord and I talked a few more minutes about the particulars of the project: who would do demolition (me) and how long do I think it would take (couple weeks). We got to the lease renewal rate. After listening to how Bloomberg had ruined so many of his investments over the last decade and how taxes on the building were putting him into the poor house, we settled on an increase but one that was dramatically less than the proposed. It ended up making the project cost a wash versus the increased rent but I didn't complain as we escaped the hassle and expense of moving.

Construction started a few days later and with help from some great friends, it all started to come together in a matter of weeks. 

Also, I want to give a big thank you to Heath and Jen who let us crash at their place for several weekends while the demo, build and painting/finishing were underway.

Now, about 9 months after the build was completed, we still have standing walls and the doors still close (pretty well, anyway). I do plan to take on other construction projects but hopefully they are in a place Kerri and I own and don't require me to cut drywall sheets in half just to get them into the room.

Here's a gallery of the construction from start to finish. We took so many pictures I'm still finding a shots that I will add to the gallery as they come up.



Adventures from the playground

This weekend was quite the adventure...

The weather was (finally) above 50 degrees, so all of New York was outside soaking in the Vitamin D.  Our little family of three was no exception. First up on Saturday was an unexpected brunch at Uncle Heath & Aunt Jen's. Sloan loves their apartment because there is so much space to roam around, but she also loves when Uncle Heath flies her through the air.

Sloan likes to steal Jen's giraffe

Impromptu dance party on the couch
After a not so quick nap, we were back at it - this time to Union Square playground. We let Sloan walk the majority of the way there these days. When she gets about 200 feet from the playground (just enough to hear the other kids shrieking) she takes off running. First stop is the swings...there weren't any open baby swings, so we tried the big kid swing out. Looks like we might need to grow into it...


We moved over to the baby playground, but then, tragedy struck. Sloan was crawling up the stairs and sliding down the slide like a champ, when suddenly on the last run her hand slipped and she hit her face on the steps. She hit the corner of her eye bone square on the step...

The immediate aftermath...
We tried to ice it when we got home, but she was  NOT having it. She wasn't letting anything come close to her eyes. So, after a quick bath (and a dose of Tylenol) we put her to bed. The next morning, we awoke to our first black eye...


As awful as it looks, her spirits were great. She was back to her normal, full-of-energy self. The timing was pretty bad though because we had a neighborhood Easter Egg Hunt to go to Sunday morning. I have an awesome dress that my mom made for her, and I've been saving it for the first springtime occasion...and now she'll have a nice black eye in all the pictures! Going to have to conjure up a few more occasions for it...

We still made it to the Easter Egg Hunt though, and she had a great time. Sloan found several eggs, looked super cute in her dress, and had a blast playing with her friend Charlie.

More eggs, over there! 
She's smiling under that thumb
They don't look happy, but they were sharing chocolate...trust me, they were happy!
Here's a video of Sloan on the prowl for eggs

We finished Sunday off with a trip to Thompkins Square Park playground to meet up with Sloan's friend Lulu. If you had any thoughts that Sloan might be hesitant to go full speed after Saturday's accident, you have not met my child. She was rip roarin' ready to go.

Sloan & Lulu taking turns on the slide

Weeee!
Finally, a video too cute not to share. Lulu's mom, Anna, took a video of them running after each other...it's too cute, and ends with an adorable, yet off kilter, hug.